By Tammy Trail
I have the pleasure of kicking off the month of December with our theme of Christmas traditions. I started out by doing a bit of research on different traditions other families participate in to celebrate the season. I read that lots of folks like to ride around the town they live in and enjoy the homes decorated with lights, followed by hot chocolate while wearing their pajamas. Lots of baking of cookies and getting together with friends and family for a decorating day.
There was a very sweet idea I read about involving a brand new tree skirt decorated with a child’s handprint every year to commemorate the season and create a memory. I also found that in the country of Sweden there is a tradition where at 3 pm on Christmas Day the country enjoys old cartoons from Walt Disney with the main character of Donald Duck being the favorite.
It got me thinking if we had any traditions in our family, and I guess we do. I like to find a new angel ornament every year for my tree. I have even received angel ornaments as gifts from friends who know of my collection. I now have a tree almost completely covered in angels. As a child, I remember my mother putting a small manger set under our Christmas tree every year. I now do the same. To me, it signifies the first Christmas gift of the baby Jesus for us all. My family also looks forward to the candlelight service on Christmas Eve every year. My daughter has suggested that we have an Italian style dinner this year after services and everyone should be in charge of one dish. Maybe this will be the start of a new tradition and we can do a new country every year.
One year while visiting my mother in New Mexico during Christmas we noticed many of the sidewalks to the front door of the homes were lighted with what she called, “Luminaria” –a tradition from Mexico–paper sacks with sand in the bottom to support a lighted tea candle. Traditionally used on Christmas Eve to guide the spirit of the Christ child to a home.
Whatever traditions you decide to incorporate into your holiday season, I hope everyone has a blast creating memories you and your children will remember for many years. I have one special memory from childhood that I would like to share. When I was about 11or 12 years old, my mother gathered all of us children together and explained that we would have no Christmas that year. She tearfully told us, because our Dad was spending a year in the Penitentiary, she would not be able to afford to buy gifts. We didn’t even have the heart to put up a tree that year. She promised to make it up to us the next year. So four kids went to bed on Christmas Eve with disappointed hearts, but we knew we would be going to visit my Grandmother later on Christmas day, and she always had something for us under her tree. I don’t know to this day how we slept through the night, but we found a wonderful surprise on Christmas morning. Our tree had been put up and decorated, and under it was enough gifts for three Christmases! Our Aunts and Uncles had all pitched in and made sure we had everything we needed for winter and toys too. I watched grateful tears roll down my mother’s pretty face with each gift we opened. She made sure we said our “Thank you’s” later that day!
I wish everyone a joyous and blessed Christmas season!